All that I can tell you....is that Life is always going to have ups and downs....it is an inevitable fact of life! NOTHING will ever be PERFECT!
"Perfection lies within Imperfection"
So according to me, the key to deal with all this is by being Happy, with Happy stuff and being Happy, with Painful stuff.
I know it is easy said then done; but if can find beauty in pain
you can find him.
